Being single?

"salahke kalau i xde boyfriend?"

i've been thrown this question several times this week alone. haha. do not ask me on this sudden boyfriend craze thingy, but it seems that everyone has a significant other these days, kan?

one of my friend complained her friends kept on trying to matchmake her with someone. what annoys her the most is that she do not want to be tied down yet, and she believes that when the time comes, relationship will happen. and it is definetely because of anyone, but out of her own willingness. in other words, she can manage.

in my opinion jugak, being single is okay. oh sebelum itu, let me stress this. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND sgt2. haha. but seriously, if u r not ready to commit, or if being single has not done you any harm, why rush it? just live ur life casually and u'll find someone or many guys along the way. u dun have to go all desperate for finding a boyfriend kan?

when u r in a relationship, there is a lot to think about. r u ready to give and take? are u ready to let down ur ego once in a while so that u can concentrate on what really matters for both of u? how do u avoid hurting each other's feelings, how to focus and keep being on track of ur daily lives? i requires a lot of management skills, don't u think? ;p

being single is fine la. serious!


p/s : td Adzuan bagi kad raye berhantu. arghhh!