of a carrot, an egg and coffee beans

there was this day when Dr. Boon was giving our psychology lecture, and she presented a story of a carrot, an egg and a coffee bean.

A carrot, an egg and a coffee bean was boiled in a boiling water.
After a while, the carrot became soft, the egg hardens inside and the coffee bean had turned into coffee, of couse =p

now think of the boiling water as a life's challenges.

do not become a carrot
because before it went through all the troubles, it was hard and strong
but the problems had weaken it, inside and outside
it is no longer as strong as it was before
so do not become a carrot.

Do Not Ever become an egg too
before it went though all the troubles, it was soft inside
but it grew hard in the inside and te outside
whose heart which becomes an egg will be bitter and fail to look at the bright side of the world
she will lose her optimism, and she will not believe in kindness anymore
DO NOT BECOME AN EGG ANYMORE!

but the coffee bean did not become softer or harder
it dissolves in the boiling water
it changes the colour, the taste and spread out a beautiful aroma out of the boiling water
please adore coffee beans
because a person with a coffee bean's heart wont change itself for the worse
it changes others
it beautifies the world with whatever it has to offer
thats why i really likes Starbucks, u see? ;p